Suicide and Afterlife

Suicide is never an easy thing to discuss and there are many, many opinions and beliefs based on the individual’s religious/spiritual views and societies heavy hand on the subject. I’d like to talk about suicide from a spiritual perspective, from Spirit’s perspective. All mediums have their own set of ideas on suicide and spiritual connection and I have heard many that I agree with and many that make me shake my head and give a violent eye roll. I have channeled many Spirit passing by their own hand and none of them have ever stated they were in “limbo” or stuck. I remember when my little brother passed, he took his own life on my dad’s back porch and my pops found him early that morning when he went out to make sure my brother was up for work. That day shook my world, my dad’s world- he honestly has never been the same since. Back when this took place I was very Christian and it just tore my heart out of my chest to think my brother was being tortured or stuck because of his choice to leave this journey early. He was only a baby in my eyes, just short of being 19, and who is anyone to say a child full of depression should suffer and be stuck in some “bad” place? I had many sleepless nights and one anxiety attack after another pondering if this was true. Soon after his passing and deep into my uncertainties, I started receiving signs from JJ one after the other. The phone would ring but no one was there; he would send me a song I had never heard by the Nixons called “Sister” over and over and my lights would flicker and turn on and off almost on demand. (SIDE-NOTE! Remember at this point in time I was not channeling and had no idea I was a Medium!)

I built a relationship with my brother based on evidence. Anything he could give to show me he was still alive I would take and thank him. His energy and presence grew and grew each time I validated his effort. During this time I realized he wasn’t stuck or in pain or not available- he was still JJ- still available and communicating with me like a crazy guy! As a matter-of-fact my youngest daughter who is now 13 would receive validations from JJ more than I would! They had a deal where he would turn the street post light on and off for her on demand and once my girlfriend who was working in England called and asked why my brother was telling her “Monkey” or something like that. Monkey is Cendle’s nickname and my brother was giving her a message! How very cool, right?

My brother sent validation of his eternal being and I assure you if he was stuck this would not have been the case. I learned that those that cross themselves over do not get stuck and countless Spirits have confirmed this throughout my three years as a medium. Those that cross over before their lessons are learned do not escape the reality that they have to work very hard to get back on track and still very much have to deal and cope and grow through all of those emotions they bailed out on. Each Soul has their own way of doing this and their individual time frame that they will do this in. Send your loved ones prayers daily to help with this. Prayer is the most important thing we can give to those living and those in Spirit. Most importantly, don’t lose faith! Believe that those in Spirit are still very much present and in your life. Just because he or she no longer has their physical body does not mean they no longer live. Our Soul is like electricity and never, ever dissipates. It lives on eternally.
Love & Healing,

4 replies
  1. Karen
    Karen says:

    Thank you Jess for sharing your story about JJ. It truly put me at ease. Yes, suicide is a difficult thing to accept in any society let alone Christian Faith.

  2. Kathleen Beaumont
    Kathleen Beaumont says:

    I just came across your posting of suicide. When a person commits this act and crosses over, I have read that their spirit remains at a lower level for healing/rehab that can take eons. I ‘ve also read that a spirit who crosses over by their hand has to relive the same situation in their next incarnation to learn the lesson of not taking their life. I’ve also read that a person who overcame much adversity in their younger years & never gave a thought to suicide but has suicidal thoughts later in life because they are tired of adversity, it is because those negative thoughts of suicide were placed into their life plan at that specific timing. I would appreciate your opinions on these concerns, Thank you.

    • Jess Coleman
      Jess Coleman says:

      When a Spirit crosses over, whether suicide or naturally, the Spirit goes to a specific dimension, or frequency, to evolve and continue to grow. They are never placed on hold or put in a lower “place” but rather it is like us here on earth- we all vibe differently and attract our same vibrations in those around us. Spirit does evaluate and still work through all of the emotional baggage and turmoil they carry but in a very loving environment and they have access to their loved ones at all times. Earth is our classroom and we come for lessons so there is no punishment but rather free will and opportunity. Hope this helps!


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